Dear Papa Joe: A Husband's Struggle
A reader named Jaimee writes to Papa Joe about his marital difficulties. He describes himself as a good provider and husband, but his wife consistently insists she is right in every argument. Despite being respected by others, Jaimee feels his wife looks down on him, making him consider separation.
Papa Joe's Advice
Papa Joe advises Jaimee to choose the right time for conversations, avoiding heated moments. He suggests calmly expressing that he wants to be heard, not to fight. Jaimee should tell his wife that he feels hurt because his efforts as a husband seem unrecognized. A calm approach can be more powerful than shouting.
Papa Joe warns against deciding to separate out of anger. Many marital problems stem not from a lack of love but from a failure to listen and understand each other. However, if insults and disrespect persist despite attempts to talk, the couple should seek help from a trusted elder or a marriage counselor.
