Woman Seeks Advice on Neglectful Live-in Partner
A woman confides in the advice column Tambagi Ko, Noy Kulas about her live-in partner who provides financial and material support but fails to give her the care and attention she needs. She describes how her partner often leaves her alone on weekends, either going out with friends or on business trips. She is left with money to spend but feels abandoned and neglected.
When she expressed concern about possibly being ill, he simply told her to get a check-up and ignored her further. To make matters worse, she discovered that her partner has rekindled a relationship with another woman who is now pregnant. She is seeking guidance on what to do.
Advice from Noy Kulas
Noy Kulas advises her to prioritize her health and well-being. He suggests she get a full medical check-up to address her concerns. Regarding the relationship, he emphasizes that she deserves respect and genuine care, not just financial support. He encourages her to have an open conversation with her partner about his infidelity and neglect, and to consider whether the relationship is worth continuing. He also recommends seeking support from trusted friends or family.
