A Filipino friend living in America, identified as Nelly (real name withheld), recently deactivated her social media account due to relentless requests for financial aid via messenger. This decision sparked a significant conflict with her American husband, who was frustrated that her earnings—including small allowances meant for family support and helping friends back in the Philippines—were being depleted.
The Harsh Reality of Life in America for Filipinos
I do not pity her choice because, in truth, life for Filipinos in America is far from easy. Contrary to popular belief, not all Filipinos in America are wealthy or have access to instant money. Most importantly, it is a misconception that being in America automatically guarantees a comfortable or easy life.
No Free Passes: Everyone Works to Survive
In the United States, everyone must work to make a living—whether they are residents holding a Green Card, citizens, married individuals, young or old. There are no freebies, shortcuts, or instant comforts in America. For instance, young people often seek jobs immediately after high school graduation, working as waiters, cleaners, drivers, or in other roles to fund their college education.
Similarly, senior citizens, even those aged 70 and above, continue to work as long as their health permits, simply to survive. The daily reality involves waking up early, laboring despite physical exhaustion, returning home late at night, and repeating this grueling ritual the next day.
Financial Struggles and the Burden of Remittances
Many Filipinos abroad take on second or part-time jobs just to cover basic expenses such as rent, bills, taxes, insurance, and food. On top of that, they must allocate a portion of their earnings to send back to the Philippines as remittances. While salaries may be higher in America, the cost of living is significantly steeper, meaning that without continuous hard work, there is nothing to gain.
The Emotional Toll and Unseen Sacrifices
Filipinos in America endure profound loneliness being far from family, extreme fatigue, and intense homesickness. Yet, they persist in their efforts and resourcefulness, driven by the hope that their sacrifices will lead to a better future. This unwavering dedication deserves recognition and gratitude.
A Salute to Overseas Filipino Workers
I extend my deepest salute and heartfelt thanks to all Filipinos laboring in foreign lands. Their resilience and hard work often go unnoticed, but they play a crucial role in supporting their families and contributing to the Philippine economy through remittances.
It is essential for people back home to understand this真实 situation—the reality that life abroad is not a bed of roses but a continuous battle for survival and dignity.
